I don’t know about you, but when I think of early American history, my thoughts naturally migrate to Massachusetts, Virginia, and Washington DCーnever New York City. Recently, though, musicals like Broadway’s smash hit, Hamilton, and shows like AMC’s, Turn, have flipped the script on that. As it happens, New York City is a veritable cornucopia of American history, from momentum-changing events to the rise of some of our most enduring national figures. Continue reading Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of History: Why You Should Visit Fraunces Tavern in New York City
Those who know me know that I don’t celebrate Valentine’s Day. In fact, I kind of despise it. And it’s not just because I don’t buy in to the carefully orchestrated marketing frenzy of overpriced gifts and experiences leading up to the holiday. It’s because something about glorifying coupledom has always rubbed me the wrong way. Sure, I can acknowledge the value of taking the time to appreciate your significant other, but that should really happen more than once a year, don’t you think? Justin and I have never been one of those couples who only hangs out with other couples. In fact, we have many friendships with individuals who happen to be unattached. And, surprise, they are no less spectacular because they haven’t “found the one”, “met their soulmate”, or “made the perfect match”.
When we heard about the Army of Lovers and their cause, we knew we wanted to be a part of it. Six years ago, Erika Anderson was in a somewhat “undefined” relationship, which left her wondering if she’d be celebrating Valentine’s Day. She walked into a drugstore and was inundated with all the unsold Valentine’s Day paraphernalia that had been regaled to the clearance rack. Rather than lament her situation, Erika armed herself to the teeth…with Hello Kitty valentines. But instead of showering Mr. It’s Complicated with them, she filled them out with a simple “To: You, From: Me” message, and gave them out to strangers on her subway commute.
And the response was overwhelmingly positive.
She continued her Valentine’s Day crusade year after year, and her Army of Lovers continued to grow. Through press from outlets like BuzzFeed and organic growth from social media, people have reached out from other cities and countries to say “Hey, I want to be a part of this.” Based on the the simple notion that we all deserve to be loved whether we’re in a romantic relationship or not, the Army of Lovers has reclaimed Valentine’s Day for all of us.
On a rainy Saturday night, we signed up to join Erika and her friends for a crafting party. In a quiet room at a Lower East Side community center, we sat at a table chock full of colored paper, stickers and stamps: the weapons employed by the Army of Lovers to create their handmade valentines. At our station we met Jim, a four-year veteran of the cause who enlisted after meeting Erika in an East Village bar. We swapped stories and colored markers as we scribbled messages like “You Are Special” and “You Are Loved” on cards that would eventually reach the New York City masses. I loved the idea of brightening someone’s commute, but if I’m being completely honest, I found the process of cutting out paper hearts and throwing a bunch of stickers on them pretty cathartic too.
New Yorkers have a pretty bad reputation and are often considered hostile and rude (yes, we’ve even topped lists). But meeting Erika and her Army of Lovers simply proves something I’ve always known: New Yorkers are pretty awesome.
So no matter where you are in the world today, I hope you’re one of the the lucky recipients of an Army of Lovers valentine. And if you’re not, know that we still think “You Are Purr-fect”.
You can learn more about Erika and her Army of Lovers on her website here.
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Dinner at The Butcher’s Daughter
The Butcher’s Daughter is somewhat of a misnomer, since the only things getting slaughtered there are vegetables. But the name isn’t the only thing that will cause you to scratch your head. The Butcher’s Daughter appears to offer vegetarian and vegan fare that even meat eaters want to devour. Throngs of them. Just pop by on a weekend morning to see the ridiculous brunch lines for yourself.
The bright yet cozy cafe has a Head Juiceologist on staff and Smashed Avocado Toast on the menu, so it’s easy to write off as a hipster joint. But the Executive Chef started his career cooking meat then developed a passion for using the best, freshest produce. As a result, The Butcher’s Daughter has a creative, robust menu offering items like Beet Deviled Eggs and Angel Hair Carbonara with no sacrifice in taste. As mentioned before, the wait times here can get pretty ridiculous. But if you happen to be coming from a crafting party late one evening, and it happens to be raining cats and dogs outside, you just might win the food lottery. Not only did we get a seat immediately, we had the communal table almost entirely to ourselves. So we did what any rational human being would: we ordered a spread big enough to fill most of it.
We’ve made no bones about the fact that this blog keeps us pretty busy. But every once in a while someone cancels or plans fall through and we find ourselves with an opening in our otherwise overpacked schedule. So, what do we do when we have some time to kill? Well, we turn to a tried-and-true solution, one that requires no tricky reservations or extensive planning. And one that happens to be the best kept pseudo-secret in town: an art gallery crawl. Oh, and the cherry on top? It won’t cost you a dime. Continue reading The Art Gallery Crawl: A Secret Alternative To Art Museums In New York City
It’s mid-January. You no longer have any holiday parties to attend, the novelty of your Christmas gifts have worn off, and you’re facing the daunting task of tackling your New Year’s resolutions. Throw in a Bomb Cyclone for good measure, and you might find yourself in a pretty deep winter funk. While many scurry to warmer temperatures, we think you can embrace all the fun things winter has to offer with a simple change in scenery. And Philadelphia is the perfect getaway for that mid-winter refresh. If you went to Philly and only saw Independence Hall, the Liberty Bell and the Betsy Ross House, then you’re missing out. Here are 7 things to do in Philly that will change the way you think of a snow day.
When considering the fact that New York City is a bustling metropolis of millions, it’s ironic how often you hear it’s inhabitants express feelings of loneliness. Or alienation. Or a sense of hopeless disconnection from their fellow denizens. These are trite sentiments, certainly, but that doesn’t make them untrue. Even Mark Twain, when chronicling his time in the The City That Never Sleeps, wrote:
“A man walks his tedious miles through the same interminable street every day, elbowing his way through a buzzing multitude of men, yet never seeing a familiar face, and never seeing a strange one the second time.”
When people ask for advice about what to see in New York City, we tell them to visit the greatest hits: Central Park, the World Trade Center, the Empire State Building, and yes, even Times Square. But after they’ve seen all that, we tell them to see the real New York City. New York City comes alive in its varied and diverse neighborhoods, and this is also true for the wonderful city of London.
I realize I might stand alone on this, but I wasn’t a fan of the movie Notting Hill. While I have a fondness for romantic comedies, this one never got me weak in the knees. So I’m not one of the many girls who flock to London’s Notting Hill neighborhood in search of The Travel Book Co. or the house with the blue door. But that doesn’t mean I don’t find reasons to make my way to this picturesque neighborhood. Notting Hill is infinitely charming not due to, but in spite of, the 1999 film. Here’s a walking tour to help you while away the day in one of London’s quaintest locales.
It probably wouldn’t surprise you to learn that most blogs don’t make it past the first year, and as our second year of blogging comes to a close, it surprises us even less. Blogging is not for the faint of heart. Continuing to create content you can be proud of is an ongoing challenge. But there’s a Chinese saying that goes “The journey is the reward”, and that rang true for us this year. The road wasn’t smooth, and there were some high peaks and low valleys. The one thing we’ve learned from blogging is that we still have so much more to learn. So let’s talk about Year Two.
If there’s one thing to know about this blog and the people behind it, it’s that Justin and I love all facets of New York City. That means loving Jean Georges and Halal Guys in equal measure. Fifth Avenue and the Lower East Side. The Met and Mmuseumm. And when it comes to the holidays, we love over-the-top displays as well as understated celebrations. One of the more quirky and lesser known holiday traditions we enjoy in New York City is that of Unsilent Night.
In case our posts about Christmas Lights and Holiday Windows didn’t give it away, we’re pretty big fans of the holiday season. And another thing we’re pretty big fans of? Food. Christmas is fast approaching and the majority of businesses will be shuttered to observe the day’s celebration, food establishments included. But one of the many things we love about New York City is that it’s incredibly diverse. A solid quarter of it’s estimated 8.6 million population is made up of non-Christians–they include Jews, Muslims, Buddhists, Hindus, Sikhs, Atheists, and many, many others. So, on Christmas Day, where do these other New Yorkers congregate for a meal? Turns out, there’s a tradition for that!